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Or have you played something else in the past? What's your favorite piece to play?

Edit: thanks for everyone that has replied. This has been so heartwarming to read :)

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Get a mute for your trumpet, and head for the basement. Maybe even build a little insulated chamber to cut down the sound more, or play in a closet. Once you get your chops back and start improving, other people won't mind hearing you.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for the tips! I never heard of a trumpet mute. Unfortunately I’ll have to work on getting another trumpet as well as a basement before I try your suggestions. I’ll still save your comment, maybe one day I could try again.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

You can pick up used trumpets on Facebook Marketplace for cheap. The most common mutes are straight and cup mutes.

Jazz players use them a lot. It gives them a cool, quiet, strained sound. Miles Davis used a straight mute often. So did Dizzy.

Get a cheap trumpet, stick a mute in it, and stand in your closet door, and play into your clothes.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

Yeah, they are a lot cheaper than I expected. I appreciate the push and I’m very tempted, but my final excuse is just that I’m hella ADHD. I’ve got a long history of picking things up only to quickly put them back down and I’ve grown to be very careful when I think of getting into anything new. It’s why I’ve mostly played small instruments, they’re cheap and easier to store. I gotta think about it and talk to some people.