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Were you "popular" in school? (piefed.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 day ago by atheqtpie@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Not that it matters now, but I'm curious. I don't know if I was popular. I had a lot of friends in middle school and I would say I did in high school too, but a lot less people knew me as the middle school I went to was smaller.

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[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

My highschool was a smaller charter school that was essentially a bunch of connected / encircled modular buildings.

I actually kinda miss it because it had different vocational paths and I ended up in a student-run computer shop. We actually fixed things around the campus and other people's machines and stuff. Shame that sort of thing kinda fell out of relevance, job-wise!

We also had a large computer lab where we played things like CounterStrike Source, Battlefield Desert Combat or 2142, and sometimes Unreal Tournament maybe?

Lol anyway, to your question: I think I might have been popular-ish. In the sense that I think I was a sort of "ambassador" between groups.

I made friends with the drama kids, the nerds, had some goth friends, stoner / skater friends, and I'd often introduce them to each other. I had my "circle" but I was that guy who sorta knew almost everybody.

I think the thing I miss most is that everyone saw each other as individuals back then. Surface level you might fit with a "group" sure, but we tended to see each other as people and for the most part they got along.

But sadly when I moved away after graduation, only like one friend really made the effort to keep up with me over the years. :( Quality best friend though!

But I still think of them often and hope they're doing okay in this crazy world...