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Bingo bango. I seethe inside when I hear people talking about forming friendships and smoothly sailing around in social situations, telling others to just be themselves and be happy. The majority of them could never even comprehend what true bullying is. That shit affects you for life, and you'd be lucky if you ever get someone close enough to be able to be open again.
The fact that schools are fertile ground for this type of abuse isn't talked about enough. It's only good because it's the only option left where large numbers of kids gather in one place. If school sucks for you the internet is your only other option