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My ideology is "man is born free, and everywhere he is in chains" - Jean-Jacques Rousseau
Of course you're free, and no one is legally allowed to lock you up or restrict you in whatever way to stop you from wearing crop tops and skirts, lol, that's not the conversation here. And I'd rather you said "it's not immoral for me to dress like a girl" than going for the "I do what I want, you're not my dad!" line, at least it shows more maturity.
You're not one to decide another's life, or to determine morality. What is moral depends on the time and the person.
Did I put chains on him? A gun to his head for him to do my bidding? Also, that final statement seems like you're the one "defining morality"! ๐ซฉ
What is the conversation here? Also, I don't dress like a girl. I dress like me. And I wasn't ever concerned with morality.
Which members of society overwhelmingly wear skirts and crop tops? Why do you think you're asking this question?! ๐ And the conversation is not about whether you can or cannot do it, but what that says about you as a self-proclaimed heterosexual man and whether women as a whole will view it and the attitudes and ideology behind it positively or negatively.
Objection, irrelevant
Fair enough. Regardless, I'm sure you'll find your cutie.