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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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We all know confidently incorrect people. People displaying dunning-kruger. The majority of those people have low education and without someone giving them objectively true feedback on their opinions through their developmental years, they start to believe everything they think is true even without evidence.

Memorizing facts, dates, and formulas aren't what necessarily makes someone intelligent. It's the ability to second guess yourself and have an appropriate amount of confidence relative to your knowledge that is a sign of intelligence.

I could be wrong though.

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[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 78 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Memorizing data doesn't make one smarter... but learning concepts absolutely does.

The classic, "we'll never need this in adult life" is math like Pythagoras' theorem, or factoring binomial equations (remember FOIL?). We don't learn that math because it's practical for adult life... we learn that math so that grown ass adults don't think someone using algebra is performing black magic.

Seems silly... but it's just like how many folks never learned past middle school biology and now think XX&XY are the only chromosomal possibilities.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 19 points 6 days ago (2 children)

How about we meet in the middle and say "learning the concept that you might be wrong will help your intelligence"?

My mother who "allegedly" graduated high school has more confidence than anyone I know and will say things like "you can't divide a small number by a bigger number" or "temperatures don't have decimals, only full numbers". Then as you stare at her blankly trying to figure out if she's joking or not, she'll tell you you're clearly not very smart if you don't know that

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

IMO you're just describing a closed mind versus an open mind. Learning the concept that you might be wrong is fundamental to having an open mind.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

And it's difficult if not impossible to be more intelligent with a closed mind no?

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

(not the op) but yeah, I agree with that.

That said, with the example of your mom, it sounds like it could be insecurity as much as it could be a closed mind. Some people really struggle with the idea that others might think they're dumb, especially their children. So they assert things as fact, because they want to maintain the image that they have all the answers. Especially when kids are bright, some parents will fight tooth and nail to maintain an air of intellectual superiority, to assert intellectual dominance.

It may seem sad, but it's pretty understandable, relatable even. - Humans be like that.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I think that kind of thing is more cultural than anything. Probably she doesn't care very much whether it's actually true or not, and feels she'd be losing face by being anything but confident about it.

Imo it's more important that people learn that being wrong can be empowering, and how to have conversations where someone is wrong but not being put down for it, than just learning that they can be wrong.

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Very possible. I just couldn't see myself purposely saying something I didn't think was true and then doubling up with calling the other person dumb over it. I don't agree with almost anything she does though so that checks out.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Funny enough, it was an agricultural class where the utility of the quadratic equation hit me. Professor didn't even call it that, but we used it to calculate maximum efficiency in fertilizer spread.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 days ago

o shit. Im gonna be expanding my garden next year. Didn't know Id need my math text book haha

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 7 points 6 days ago (2 children)

remember FOIL?

A lot of adults don't, then proceed to argue about order of operations, having forgotten that Brackets have to be all expanded out before doing anything else at all.

We don’t learn that math because it’s practical for adult life

Yes we do. I use Maths every day, quite separate to the fact I teach it.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

We don’t learn that math because it [isn't] practical for adult life

I love this argument because it's like a guy who catches and eats raw fish saying that we don't need fire. Like, man, you're not even trying to use it, though.

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 2 points 5 days ago

I love this argument because it’s like a guy who catches and eats raw fish saying that we don’t need fire

and in fact had forgotten all about the fact that he cooked it over a fire as a treat for last Christmas 😂

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think you missed that the next portion of their statement was connected to the part you (inappropriately) added the missing word to.

They're saying, essentially, that it's important to learn math just for a rounded education, even if it lacks application. They're saying closer to "even if we're eating sushi, we still need fire".

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm aware the quoted person agrees with me. I'm responding to a common public sentiment.

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Ah, alright. :) sometimes these things are hard to tell in text.

Haha, no problem, friend. :p

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I mean Pythagoras is useful but what are you foiling?(garden fertilizer?) Or are you misconstruing "that math" for "all math"?

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Or are you misconstruing “that math” for “all math”?

I wasn't even commenting on that, hence why I quoted "remember FOIL?" and not the rest.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Students asking "why do we need to learn this" or worse graduates who proudly proclaim "Day 19,337 of never using the quadratic equation" are a symptom of teachers who haven't read their Thorndike.

Learning is an active process. It takes effort to do. People do not like being made to waste effort. Students will be much more effective learners when they understand the value of the lesson to them in their lives. "You never know when this will come in handy" is not good enough. This is Thorndike's principle of readiness. And especially high school teachers are bad at satisfying it.

Math teachers get it very often, because for some reason we approach teaching math to a nation full of hormonal teenagers as if they all want to grow up to be mathematicians. Starting in about the 7th grade they stop giving practical examples and teach math as a series of rules to be applied to contextless problems, and to the student it feels like years of pointless busywork.

And while I can't claim to have ever factored a polynomial in my daily life since leaving school, I did recently come up against the order of operations. I calculated the width of some cabinet doors, and I factored in the gaps between them wrong. 3 doors, 4 gaps between the doors. I did door_width = opening_width / 3 - 4 * gap_width. When I needed to do door_width = (opening_width - 4 * gap_width) / 3. In the first case, you end up subtracting all 4 gap widths from each door. I would be better at math today if you'd explained it to me like that when I was 12.

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 6 days ago (2 children)

we approach teaching math to a nation full of hormonal teenagers as if they all want to grow up to be mathematicians

No we don't.

Starting in about the 7th grade they stop giving practical examples

No we don't. Just check out some final exams to see plenty of them still included.

if you’d explained it to me like that when I was 12

Most teachers do, but some aren't very good, especially in the U.S. where it's not even required to have Maths qualifications to be a Maths teacher.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

No we don’t.

I mean, go ahead and lie about how I spent 6 years of my own life to my face. Memorizing proofs and working endless assignments of just...equations. Here is an equation. Do thing to it. Solve it, simplify it, factor it, graph it. I plugged and chugged so many numbers into the quadratic equation, I don't think I was ever told what that's for. Some chapters had token word problems.

A lot of the math I actually know I learned in physics class, where you'd do unit math. That 25 meters traveled in 5 seconds means a velocity of 5 meters/second. Science class math comes with sniff tests that math class math doesn't.

The way I was introduced to order of operations was, the teacher wrote a long expression on the board, this plus that divided by such minus thus times such plus this times that. Spend a second solving this. Okay, who got 7? Who got -23? If you got -23, you're right.

That is FUCKGARBAGE teaching. It may be the flight instructor in me, that my classroom is an actual airplane that we fly over actual people and their homes, but few things piss me off as deeply as setting up your students to fail. Because introducing the subject this way separates your class into two groups: Those that already have a functioning understanding of the topic whose time is being wasted, and those who don't already understand it and need you to teach them this skill, who now feel tricked, confused and frustrated.

This teacher went on to explain Order of Operations as a series of rules you follow because following rules is what you do. "You do parenthesis before exponents before multiplication/division before addition/subtraction." PEMDAS, Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally. This was taught with the same "This is how nature is" attitude as the planets of the solar system or how ionic bonds work, except algebraic notation is artificial. It's manmade, like the English language. It's a method of communicating ideas, except it was taught as a series of rules and procedures that you were supposed to memorize how to do without understanding the goal, and fuck your life if you lacked the vocabulary to describe what about it you didn't understand.

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I mean, go ahead and lie

I'm not lying. It's there in the textbooks. There are many available for free online these days.

Memorizing proofs

No students are required to memorise proofs, only how to do proofs to begin with.

Some chapters had token word problems

They're not token problems - learning how to do word problems is a central core of Maths. They're thrown in often.

Science class math comes with sniff tests that math class math doesn’t

Not really. v=d/t, s=ut+½at², and similar equations are used often in teaching Maths (such as in non-linear graphs).

because following rules is what you do

That's right. We teach that if you follow all the rules you will always get the correct answer. Now witness adults on social media arguing about the answer to an order of operations question because they've forgotten the rules but refuse to admit that's even possible, and yet the rules are still there to be found in Maths textbooks now, same as they were then, still the same rules (despite some of them claiming the rules have been changed).

algebraic notation is artificial.

No it isn't.

It’s manmade,

The notation is, the Maths isn't.

like the English language.

It's not at all like language, any language.

It’s a method of communicating ideas

No, it's a method of calculating things, like rocket trajectories, etc. Got nothing to do with communication at all.

except it was taught as a series of rules and procedures that you were supposed to memorize how to do without understanding the goal

I can't help it if you yourself had a bad teacher, but look in the textbooks and that isn't how it's taught at all.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works -1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I LOOKED IN THE TEXTBOOKS FOR YEARS. AS A STUDENT. YOU USELESS TWAT!

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago

I LOOKED IN THE TEXTBOOKS FOR YEARS. AS A STUDENT.

Apparently not carefully enough. Go look again. As I said there are plenty available online now.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Most teachers do, but some aren’t very good, especially in the U.S. where it’s not even required to have Maths qualifications to be a Maths teacher.

there's more of the country than florida

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

there’s more of the country than florida

And there's more of the country falling behind the rest of the world in Maths than just Florida. It was all over the news, again, just a few weeks ago.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

i have an idea, look up credentialing standards before you comment on them

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

i have an idea, look up credentialing standards before you comment on them

says person who clearly didn't. You know they've changed them recently, right?

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

credentialing standards are set state by state. you know that, right?

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

credentialing standards are set state by state. you know that, right?

Yep. And you know Florida isn't the only state falling behind in Maths, right? Now go look and see how many states no longer require Maths teachers to have qualifications in Maths and you'll see why

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

can tell you are neither in nor familiar with the current issues in education. every educator and anyone who's had to get a degree in the last 20 years can tell you we're seeing a bunch of bullshit that's the legacy of remote learning. a generation lost a year of education.

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 0 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

can tell you are neither in nor familiar with the current issues in education

Says person quoting an excuse given several years ago, and clearly hasn't looked up who he's talking to (spoiler alert: a Maths teacher)

that’s the legacy of remote learning

That was the excuse given several years ago. Latest figures (a few weeks ago, as I already said) show the U.S. has fallen even further behind the rest of the world post return to school, so the issue was never remote learning to begin with.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

please, pretend you have credentials none of us believe. you were earlier proudly and strongly asserting you could teach math anywhere in the US without any sort of math cert. show me your source on that before you keep running your mouth on shit you know nothing about. remind me, how long ago was the pandemic and when will the last of those children graduate? you "taught math" you should be able to do arithmetic

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

please, pretend you have credentials none of us believe

No thanks. I never lie.

anywhere in the US

Nope. Never said that, hence why you're unable to quote me saying that.

show me your source on that

says person who has shown no sources that it's only Florida and was only because of remote learning. Here's a 2-week old article for you, so you can stop quoting excuses from years ago

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

especially in the U.S. where it’s not even required to have Maths qualifications to be a Maths teacher.

that you or someone else

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

that you or someone else

That's me. Is this you saying "strongly asserting you could teach math anywhere in the US without any sort of math cert" or someone else? Because, in case you didn't notice, definitely doesn't say the same thing

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

okay, your speech is littered with Sibboleths. no one who knows anything about the English language believes you know anything about education in the United States as you have never lived there and at best taken a brief holiday. please find better hobbies.

[–] SmartmanApps@programming.dev 1 points 5 days ago

okay, your speech is littered with Sibboleths

Says person who can't debunk anything I said and is resorting to ad hominems.

no one who knows anything about the English language

If you read the article you'll find the U.S. has been falling behind in English as well 😂

as you have never lived there and at best taken a brief holiday

Says person resorting to making things up

please find better hobbies

Maths education is a profession of mine, not a hobby