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[–] ElysianBladeRunner@piefed.social 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This issue for them is they think something more is owed to them. That deep down, they shouldn’t have had to rely on that welfare. In a better version of their lives, they would have the easy job that pays well. But the Democrats are the cause of their current circumstance.

Disillusioned people who refuse to compromise with poor critical thinking and too much pride got us here. That can’t be “fixed” in 4 years.

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)

His biggest issue is he never passed highschool and has never had a job. He has no work ethic from a rough upbringing but isnt really able to put in the work he needs to. Now hes got a slew of mental illnesses which i think is in part having no purpose or meaning in life except video games in moms basement.

My parents owned a small business, they needed a general laboror and they would have picked him up and dropped him off at home. He wouldn't have even needed an interview but he kept saying he is "above physical labor". He then claims me being able to buy a house recently is all luck and due to my wealthy parents (who didn't pitch a dime) and not hard work.

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Having a rough upbringing is no excuse. I also had a rough upbringing, and im an engineer now. You choose to try to make your situation better, or you don't. The world may deal you a shitty hand, and if the issues you face are systemic, I can see it holding you back. But, it sounds like this guy is a poor white kid. They love to give out scholarships to poor white kids, its literally what got me through school.

It sounds like your friend is just not the brightest crayon in the box. Kind of hard to pull yourself out of a shitty situation when you don't have a lot going on upstairs.

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

He can be smart when he applies himself. He just struggles to apply himself. 1 hour of effort in a day is a full days of hard work to him. I agree you can't just blame your upbringing, at a certain point you have to take your own life into your own hands.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I see that issue sometimes and it always confuses me. Like, I personally believe all people are owed the basics of life, but nobody is above work that needs done unless the work they would otherwise be doing is more valuable. As an engineer I'll do manual labor or work an assembly line if it's so important it's worth paying an engineer ro do it. But also like if you have no skills you're gonna be stuck doing unskilled labor, that's literally why a lot of us got skills

[–] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Starting with unskilled labor can be a path into skilled labor if you work as an apprentice in a trade. I'd say at least half of my current job relies on hands on experience from previous positions, the other half relies on my education. He is unfortunately lacking in both, and now that he's nearly 30, its gonna be harder for him to build up those skills and get a good paying job. He is so adamant he won't work for minimum wage which i get it, it sucks, but his expenses are quite low and he has to start somewhere. No one is offering a 100k position with benefits to a drop out with no experience and a 10 year gap in their resume.