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[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago

Together with my partner for 15 years, we got together in middle school, your argument about 30 is invalid, ciao xD

But honestly, just heckin know yourself. Love and infatuation are not the same - one is rock-solid, one will easily flee. Start dating at infatuation, if it blooms into love, stay together for the next year. Do not speedrun marriage, it's romantic and fun but you can withold, and it's better to let all gears grind away at imperfections first. That's it. No waiting, unless you know you need it, no bullshit - just take your time while together, get to learn each other, spend time together - both cute and ugly - if you can, move together after love blooms and learn how it is to live together. But that's it.