Sooo...I'd normally look around the web to see if someone had something similiar happen to it but I am not sure how to put it in querable sentence...
Basically maps are out of wack when my partner plays. Lua infiltration? Some doors you need to unlock, she has unlocked from the start - the chandelier thingy you need to shoot down to punch a hole in the floor? It's down at the start of the game for her. On the other hand on Zariman we found out she has some of the maintenance passages closed, even though they're open for me.
I...am not sure what the heck is going on. Did someone had something like this happen to them? Her game updates normally so I dunno if it's something in the settings or what.
Together with my partner for 15 years, we got together in middle school, your argument about 30 is invalid, ciao xD
But honestly, just heckin know yourself. Love and infatuation are not the same - one is rock-solid, one will easily flee. Start dating at infatuation, if it blooms into love, stay together for the next year. Do not speedrun marriage, it's romantic and fun but you can withold, and it's better to let all gears grind away at imperfections first. That's it. No waiting, unless you know you need it, no bullshit - just take your time while together, get to learn each other, spend time together - both cute and ugly - if you can, move together after love blooms and learn how it is to live together. But that's it.