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I've gone my whole life (I'm 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I'm not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I'm jealous of the youth, being old sucks.

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[–] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 month ago

i transitioned at 35 and i would recommend it. i started seeing a therapist and got into a group session with her with other trans ppl at various stages of transition and it helped a lot so i definitely recommend that if available. i think i started therapy in july and was starting on hrt in december (and i didn't even expect that since i was expecting i had to wait a year before it but my therapist suggested fenway health).