those_who_wonder

joined 3 weeks ago

That's a good shot ๐Ÿ‘ yours I assume?

[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I appreciate your perspective ๐Ÿ™ I'm super scared it would ruin my marriage, which sucks because I am quite fond of my wife.

Wow what a great response thank you ๐Ÿ’œ

Thank you for that I needed it

[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

at your age, it'll be much easier to come out if you have to.

Probably won't though on account of the whole "being a coward" thing lmfao

[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I am in the US so that sucks

 

I've gone my whole life (I'm 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I'm not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I'm jealous of the youth, being old sucks.