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I've gone my whole life (I'm 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I'm not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I'm jealous of the youth, being old sucks.

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[–] silvana@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

recently (less than two weeks ago) i finally decided to come out as trans at 29 years old after nearly 10 years of thinking i was too late to start transitioning. don't let your age hold you back, if you feel like this, explore those feelings, and figure things out at your own pace <3