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Aside from men being horny in the 1800s, and this being a holdover since that time, is there any actual reason why this hasn't changed?

If society was dominated by women, would this be more likely to change?

I was sweating my ass off hiking in the hot sun, and the question has been bothering me all day after my top soaked through with sweat.

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[โ€“] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Legally, a lot of places it's been court tested, and you actually can. Culturally, it's just kind of that way. Hair is banned in Arabia, tits can hang out in Papua New Guinea. The West says no boobs but hair is fine.

A genital covering is the only cultural universal, although it can sometimes be overly revealing by Western standards, like with penis gourds.

[โ€“] marcie@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

A genital covering is the only cultural universal, although it can sometimes be overly revealing by Western standards, like with penis gourds.

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