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Precisely my concern. Front and center in my mind, in fact, because my current job stems directly from the dreams of my secondary school days. Might just be stuck between work-to-live and live-to-work modes when I ought to settle for a work-to-live approach.
When my daughter was a teen she was amazing at cooking and baking from many years of working in our kitchen. There was a culinary school opening so I prompted her to apply. She came back with, "I have thought about it, but I think of I did cooking as a job, I would come home and have no hobbies to pursue, and may even lose all enjoyment from it"
I have monetized all of my hobbies it is something I naturally do. I have been self employed my entire life aside from odd jobs.
Does it kill the passion? Somewhat but not in the way your thinking. That being said it opens a lot of doors to dive deeper into your passion and interest as well if you keep the flame alive. It's all goal orientated.
What kills the hobbies are the pressure to perform even when your back is against the wall. Like when you have bills to pay and you rely on that money to survive that is what kills the drive for the hobbies. You start to do things for money, rather than pursuing things based on interest. This will taint your drive if you let it. But if you have strong enough passions it won't kill them outright, more of burn you out on them until you grow in revenue passed the needs of life or give up and go back to a job. Once you make enough to survive fully at your own comfort level. Then that opens you up mentally again for the joy because the pressure is mostly gone and then you can utilize the monetary gains to reinvest in the hobby you love but on a grander scale, it opens your mind to options/dreams.
You shift from what you have to do, to what you can do.
Now that we are all aligned that monetizing our passions kill them, what next? How can one find joy on work?