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Men can take their shirts off for hot days and exercise. Why can't women do the same in 2025? (pawb.social)

submitted 1 week ago by Wahots@pawb.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Aside from men being horny in the 1800s, and this being a holdover since that time, is there any actual reason why this hasn't changed?

If society was dominated by women, would this be more likely to change?

I was sweating my ass off hiking in the hot sun, and the question has been bothering me all day after my top soaked through with sweat.

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[–] Liljekonvalj@feddit.org -2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I literally never said any of that.

This is a weird conversation and I just realized I've been having it with multiple different people. I thought it was just one person. So let me recalibrate.

And actually bounce, because this is getting less about what's being said and the ideas behind the opinions and more just emotional garbage... for me at least, sorry. I'm really sorry you're going through a lot. I really wish you a full recovery for ever ❤️ But for me to go down this road with you over an issue I never intended do discuss,and to be honest never said any of the things... No... Sorry but no.

I also hope you get the help you need, and I'm guessing you're American so I wish you all the best going forward. With or without tits and shirts.

Bye ✌️🕊️

Edit

I just realized you're not the cancer girl. However, everything still stands.

God luck ✌️🕊️

[–] webadict@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Part of, you also have your vagina?

Part of

you also have your vagina?

You say disgusting things and try to backtrack when called out on them. You are such a coward to say horrible things and then pretend you didn't.

No woman is defined by her breasts, vagina, or even chromosomes, and losing any part of her is not being less of a woman. Any woman with breast cancer is just as much of a woman before as after. Fuck you.