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[โ€“] Lembot_0004@discuss.online 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I always wonder if obsessively negative people ever feel joy.

We are. We are just more prone to demand justice, for people to be non-imbeciles. We feel joy when something good happens, we just rarely express that openly, because we believe that nice things are as it SHOULD be. Nice is normal. No reason to dance around about something as banal as "things going right". But we are angry about shit. More angry than most people who consider shit normal, but good things are something strange.

We, "obsessively negative people", are optimists.

[โ€“] SippyCup@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

It's one thing to demand justice for those who cannot obtain it themselves. That is noble, and just.

It's quite another to lament all day about the guy who absent mindedly stole your place in the self checkout lane. To lay in accusations of malice when ignorance would otherwise do.

I'll grant you that the way things should be is very often at odds with the way things are. But no person I've met who I would describe as an obsessively negative person could ever be labeled an optimist. Their view of the world is always one of conflict. No grace given for innocent mistakes, no breath taken when the weight of the world comes down upon their shoulders in a way that simply cannot be changed. These people are ever the victim of their own mentality.

I wonder if they can experience joy because they seem hard wired to find the fault in every bit of happiness. To seek out sour grapes and bitter apples in every bowl of sweet fruit.