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If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans?
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If there's an expectation of sex we'd have to figure out if we're compatible in that way.
This is such a mature response, it remains open to possibility while being realistic about the existence of certain boundaries or needs.
To be honest figuring out if you are sexually compatabile is an important aspect of any relationship, and trans people even more than others might need accommodation and have a need to figure out compatibility.
How do you think you would you figure out compatibility?