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If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans?
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No, because I'm (a) in a relationship and (b) not into trans people.
I mean, a lot of trans people are not that different than cis people - in the scenario I've imagined, this is a person you are attracted to already, and maybe finding out they are trans would be a surprise then?
What if it were someone who was post-op, had transitioned as a child, and for them being trans is a medical fact from their distant past? They live fully as a cis person, you and most people wouldn't know they were trans unless they told you. Would you not date them if you found out?