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If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 4 days ago by dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Why or why not?

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[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

It's perfectly fine if you wouldn't date a trans person because they don't match your genital preference, sex related things can be a deal breaker. But you're not gay for dating a trans person of the opposite sex.

Ok, then the equal is true — I'm not transphobic for deciding I don't want to date a trans person. Regardless of sexual part compatibility.