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what is that you usually do or see in your country or area but is weird to do in other area you have traveled or vice versa?? like it is unusual to wear footwear indoors in asia.

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[–] No_Ones_Slick_Like_Gaston@lemmy.world 105 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Easy: school shootings, together with politician denial about the causes of this, guns, and lack of regulation for who owns them, make owning guns easier than getting a driver's license.

Super sad, but here we are.

[–] SalamenceFury@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

The police kills more people every year than the amount of people killed in mass shootings since 1983. They also repeatedly ignore reports of people who go on to commit school shootings.

You should look into common sense pig control. I think that would save more lives than just being hysterical about AR-15s.

[–] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 25 points 4 days ago (2 children)

2024

Police- 1270

Mass shootings- 500ish (actually a down year)

While I agree we need police reform, let's be accurate.

Both problems need extensive work.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Mass shootings are likely now what we all imagine. I think most of us are imagining the left side of this chart. And I'd say the leftmost three sources are hardly conservative. :)

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, the "high schooler shoots up a school" or "crazy guy shoots up a mall" school shootings are incredibly rare. The majority of "mass shootings" are gang related violence. And even if you include all the instances and assumed you were equally likely to be involved in any of them (you aren't), it would still be incredibly unlikely for you to ever be involved in such a situation.

Gun deaths in general are not what most people imagine they are. 2/3 of them are suicides. Of the remaining 1/3, they will almost certainly be perpatrated by someone the victim had a pre-existing relationship with.

Not to say that gun violence is not a problem. But the view some of the lunatics on this site seem to have - that going out to eat lunch in America is more dangerous than living in Gaza - is just completely false.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

We're mostly agreed. But suicides and "gang violence" and "man shoots family" shouldn't be discounted, but OTOH, they don't count as random, and random is what most people fear. Gun violence isn't random. Vehicular death is random, at about the same rate. And we don't talk about that.

Always said, America doesn't have a gun problem. We have a culture problem.

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

On a brighter note, apparently our casual friendliness with strangers is unusual elsewhere. So we've got that going for us, which is nice

[–] penguin_rocket@jlai.lu 1 points 1 day ago

French here: had to work with an American girl who was doing her internship in my company: absolutely. Same for an English teacher at my university during my studies: very nice. Americans people are very friendly and nice people.

[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

That was my first thought too.