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If you could say one thing to yourself at 16 what would it be? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
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[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

You're not too smart to be fooled. Teach yourself about abusive narcissism and learn the signs of boundary violation. Your family loves you but they're clueless about this stuff. There is so much more you need to learn about relationships, and you have so many more options outside of high school, no need to rush. Oh, and you're what's called "demisexual", it's not really a thing yet but don't worry, there are others like you they're just rare. You can wear that pride ribbon without feeling awkward, you're just your own flavor of queer.

Oh, and drink more water.