Asklemmy

Much easier said than done. Some people have a difficult time accepting that their children are adults with different opinions. My Dad still sees me as the little boy he raised, sometimes that's nice and I treasure it. Sometimes it's still the most frustrating thing in the world. I'm fortunate that my parents haven't fallen down the MAGA pipeline but they're definitely more conservative than they were 5 years ago. I couldn't educate my Dad on anything, he just doesn't see me that way. Mind you I don't have to, I'm fortunate.

My point being, for some people their relationship with their parents will never go both ways but that's okay. They're your parents and it's one of the relationships that rarely is symmetrical. My Dad is my father, I'm his son, and I've learned to accept the relationship we have (which is pretty good) rather than get upset about the few problematic beliefs he holds. For people who are not as fortunate as me, zero contact might be the answer. Sometimes it's okay to accept things that aren't perfect.

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Dude I wish it were this easy but how you just explained they educated us as an infant, they still see me as an infant. There isn't a thing I can say to make them question their billions of dollars of propaganda because I am simply younger.

I call bullshit on this. Education does not, in fact, "go both ways."

Generally, in western society, we accept the idea that adults should be responsible for themselves, with exceptions for those who are physically or mentally unable to do so. We value principles of autonomy and personal responsibility, so we're generally expected to do the work of educating ourselves (or paying someone for their help) in adulthood.

When a person has a child, they make a choice to be a parent and to take on the responsibility to raise that child. Of course, we know that not everyone follows through on that responsibility.

That person's child has not been given any choice. They should not be required to take responsibility for their parent(s) just because of the accident of their birth. Many children choose to care for their parents in their old age for various reasons, usually for love or money.

As a society, we agree that we owe protection, education, and the fulfillment of needs to our children ... because we choose to bring those children into the world and because we need them to perpetuate the social order we rely on.

Those children do not, when they become adults, automatically owe the same things back to the full-grown adults who raised them. Generally, we expect them to provide stability for their elders by contributing to the social and economic order, mostly by paying taxes and keeping infrastructure functional.

Parents are able to control aspects of their children's lives in order to raise them in what they deem to be appropriate ways. Children don't get "a turn" to control all of the same aspects of their parents' lives. My mother kept me from playing video games and watching MTV as a teen because she thought it would "rot your brain." But as much as I'd love to, I can't keep her from watching Fox (or NewsMax, or OAN, or TBN, or whatever she's on this week).

Some people might choose to try to reverse the effects of 20+ years of a 24-hour propaganda machine brainwashing their parents out of love or a sense of familial duty, or whatever. And that's admirable.

But I absolutely reject the idea that it's somehow "my turn" to "educate" 20+ years of Fox News programming out of my aging conservative parents.