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Every time I hear someone say 'eh' in a questioning tone or to mean 'um actually' I lose my shit. Or even just to play something down.

Like I literally come to hate the person instantly. Its a very strong feeling on a very small sound.

Instant downvotes if I see it on Lemmy too. HATE IT.

How about all y'all?

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[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 33 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I literally dislike it whenever anyone uses the word literally when they clearly mean figuratively.

Its just extra syllables to lie to me.

[–] tal@olio.cafe 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

There's this process in language where intensifiers


words that amplify the strength of the meaning of the rest of the phrase


tend to become used in areas that they aren't really truly appropriate in and thus "weaken" in meaning.

So, for example, "awesome" once truly meant "awe-inspiring", but it's been used enough in weaker senses the past several decades here in California that it doesn't really mean that any more. It just means "very good" now.

I don't think that the Brits do that with "awesome"


or at least not as much


but they like to use "colossally" in a similar way.

The above Wikipedia link has a list of intensifiers, including "literally", and you can probably recognize a bunch of them that have "weakened".

[–] oddlyqueer@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 days ago

Really blows my mind that so much ink is spilled over "literally" while "really" gets a pass for doing the same thing really.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago
[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

As I said in another comment, it isn't just using it incorrectly that's annoying, it's also using it unnecessarily. People use "literally" for emphasis in sentences where no adverb is needed. It should only be used if you are clarifying that you mean literally when the sentence could otherwise be interpreted as figurative

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 2 points 2 days ago

It's just become a stylistic habit. People do it in imitation of what they hear everyone else do. This actually makes it even more annoying to me, though I know this is just instinctive human behavior.