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For me, as someone with serious libido issues, its unbearable, I want it constantly and cannot sate it. I get maybe 15 minutes of clarity after getting some, then my brain is back to see immediately after. Its a curse for me, I've been talking to a doctor but I don't know what to do. Honestly, it feels good, like really good. But afterwards I feel terrible, like why did I want that so much? But I feel like my experience is an odd one.
Right there with you buddy. Unfortunately I don't have an answer other than trying to hyperfocus on other things and avoid shit that gets you going.
So a medication I take increases libido. I already had a very high libido.
What helped a lot was having an iron will.
What helped more was having that will forged into steel by having my hand and arm injured. I have become like a monk now at holding it back and keeping focus.
Bonus points I can now basically get through pain or missy anything through sheer willpower alone (note: this could be a bad thing too, like not throwing up when you ate something bad and should have).
Is this some sort of alpha male post? Wtf are you on about?
Looks to me like they are on about some shared life experience
That is not how that reads