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[–] spongebue@lemmy.world 32 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Do me a favor: go to what was once (or still is) your favorite park and take a cool photo. Using your phone is fine, but I want you to take a few minutes to find a cool subject/perspective/composition combination. Maybe consider coming back if the sun isn't at the best angle when you go there the first time.

Show me what you come up with!

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

People who don’t leave their home usually don’t have favorite parks

[–] spongebue@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Oh, please. People who have never left their home in their entire life probably wouldn't. Why would someone who stopped leaving their house lose their favorite? I haven't lived in my hometown in 20 years, but I still have a favorite park from there. My vegan friend once said she misses lobster. Someone who lost their hearing could still have a favorite song.

Just because life circumstances change, doesn't mean they have no memory of how things used to be.