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I ordered 4 pairs of shoes online. I received 3, 1 if which was damaged.

A few days later I called to complaint about the missing shoe and the damaged shoe. They tell me nothing they can do about the damaged shoe, but will pay me back for the undelivered shoe and that they knew already as the stock had actually run out and the return was already in process.

The transaction went through today, I received payment for all 4 shoes....

So basically I got 2 shoes plus a damaged shoe for free

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[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm responding to you asking for a purely moral stance, with a possible counter argument. I'm not suggesting to take without checking, I'm suggesting check and it's very likely they have.

, it wouldn’t justify dishonesty in return

It would justify not going out of your way to return money to them.

That’s moral relativism, not ethics

There's no such thing as morals or ethics that are not relative. Stating that has no meaning. When discussing morals, you must be willing to debate the morals foundations themselves. Are you?

[–] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 1 points 12 hours ago

It would justify not going out of your way to return money to them.

I disagree. A moral universalist view would hold that taking what isn’t yours is wrong, full stop. You can argue there are degrees to it - that stealing from a cancer patient causes more harm than stealing from a megacorporation - but something being less bad than the alternative still doesn’t make it good or right. From a purely moral standpoint, the right thing to do is to let them know they overpaid. Treat others as you’d want to be treated yourself.