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Advice for New Bi-guy (midwest.social)

Anyone have any advice for navigating coming out as bisexual recently. I just moved states so I haven't been able to get a good grasp on the social scene yet, is there maybe a way of thinking about dating preferences without actually dating?

I've thought about going to a gay bar but I've never been to any and I really don't know what to do.

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[-] Custoslibera@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

To me it sounds like you’re saying this:

Hey Lemmy, I want to learn how to ride a bicycle but I don’t actually want to ride a bicycle as part of learning how to ride one. I also don’t want to make any mistakes learning how to ride a bicycle.

If someone came up to you and said that, would you think that’s reasonable?

[-] mossy_capivara@midwest.social 4 points 1 year ago

Exactly, it's paradoxical and frustrating because I'm trying to do something that doesn't make any sense

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