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Sex education for REALLY promiscuos people?
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this post was submitted on 27 Sep 2023
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I appreciate you amending your post to strike through the slurs and problematic language - but maybe just remove the old words entirely and leave an edit at the bottom mentioning you removed problematic language? For many transgender folk it can be quite distressing seeing the word used
As for advice for this kind of thing, as other people mentioned there's a lot of advice if you just search for it. Shrimpteeth is a wonderful resource, they have an Instagram account with a lot of free resources too.
Ok I get how tranny is a slur but wtf is wrong with calling a hooker a hooker? Isn't that word just a synonym for prostitute or is there some weird american subtext I'm too european to understand?
Could we like, not double down on just blurting out slurs in a thread about how slurs are harmful? Like, as a trans person who just asked OP to remove the word because its needlessly distressing, I'm just baffled that you'd reply to me in particular that way.
As for how the other word is a pejorative term for a sex worker, I don't know, but by virtue of them choosing to censor it, I must assume they had a reason?
As an aside, in an effort to move away from the awful social stigma surrounding some of the "older" terms (not that the words themselves are necessarily derogatory, but that the profession itsself is stigmatised as being a negative thing), many prefer to use simply "sex worker" to legitimise both the person and their chosen profession.