Sorry

You're not, but you sound more passive-aggressive with that Reddit-tier opener. If you're that big into "self improvement" try improving your delivery style.

I never followed lobster boy

Considering how much you've already either lied about or laughably misread women around you, I'm going to doubt you here. If you truly haven't, and you want to continue your crusade of self pity and totally-not-misogyny misogyny, you're missing out by not signing on with Dr. Professor Peterson Esquire PhD MD. You have no apparent functional differences between your ideology and his.

About 99% of my politics is pretty much as leftist

There it is again. You are so totally as leftist as they come,

The thing with bigots like you is that you think it's some equal (or worse) negative thing to feel even a hint of what you in your privileged position dish out on a regular basis, unnoticed and unseen. If you truly feel oppressed by those evil feeeeemales, look at how many poor oppressed "canceled" men dominate corporate boardrooms and the Fortune 500 list (while burning the planet down).

is going to get labelled as a "Petersonian" or "pseudointellectual" redpill apologist

Because you are and have provided absolutely nothing of substance to prove otherwise. If you sermonize against women like a Petersonian, do pseudointellectual Redpill apologism like a pseudointellectual Redpill apologist, and then whine about the labels, the problem is not the labels. It is you.

Blame the men that need to be blamed.

You're one of them. I am a man with good relationships with women, from my wife to my coworkers to my friends. The problem is you. Your pretenses of "self improvement" are keeping you in a bitter and hateful rut and I sincerely hope you drop the nonsense someday.