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this post was submitted on 17 Oct 2023
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People say "party" but really it is an awkward conversation generator. Unpleasant.
I get bored easily, so I bring instruments and play along with the music or the other musicians. Or, increasingly, I am the music.
I also bring my spindle, or my sewing. Or I stand around the kitchen helping with the food. Find a thing you do well, whether it is barbecuing skewers on the hotplate or pouring drinks, and then it will be a thing to do with your hands making for less awkward. Be helpful. And don't get too drunk because drunk people aren't as awesome as they think they are.