So gay characters should only be in media to tell stories about gay people problems? Is that how you think the real world works, like a gay person never accomplished anything other than progressing the gay agenda. Why can't there just be a story of a man who does a thing and then goes home to his husband. You know, like how real life works lol.

Well that's not what it means. It means being aware of and opposed to systemic injustices in our society, that's all it means.