I just don't understand, and I never will. How are they hurting you? Why are you so obsessed? Queer people just want to exist. I spent years of my youth praying that god would kill me in my sleep. And men like this would have this be the norm for children who just want to be loved. Any young queers reading this, please love yourself and know there are people who will love you unconditionally. Sometimes it takes a bit of effort and waiting to find them, but they will hold you tight. Just hang on. As an older queer, I can assure you your chosen family is waiting for you! And they need you just as much as you need them!