Yes, that was shitty of me. It was a sarcastic comment against someone else (hence the :P), who also had their comments removed because they were behaving worse. But on Uplifting News, my comment really wasn't appropriate regardless. I deserved to have those comments removed as well as the brief temporary ban there. That was good moderation.

However that has nothing to do with hexbear or anything we're talking about here.

Focusing specifically on the comment I had removed from hexbear (quoted above), and the message I sent which led to the site ban (you can find that on Chapo from around that time), how was I being an asshole? How was my comment "genocide apologia" and how was I "malding" in the message?

I don't think you can actually back that up with any sound reasoning. Hence, the moderators at hexbear are shit, which makes the place a dumster fire.