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Let's Play AQ-10 • I find it difficult to work out people’s intentions
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I hate this type of question. I don't know whether I have trouble working out people's intentions because my mental (and physical) health has me isolated socially. I don't interact enough with people irl to know, I've been a loner basically all my life. Same for stuff like "do people frequently say X about you" - people don't say anything about me, let alone frequently or to my face.
It's really frustrating sometimes, especially when you're trying to get any diagnosis because these questionnaires don't take social anxiety into account.
For those 'people often say...' questions, there's huge cultural variations in how acceptable it is to even talk about one's personal traits. 'people say I am very blunt' - sorry I don't know anyone blunt enough to say that.
In your case, I think you'd answer Agree for this question. It's not up to you to tease out if it's the result of condition X or condition Y. And your health provider shouldn't be making that determination based purely on which option you picked on a self-report questionnaire.
But do I "agree"? Maybe I'm very good at figuring out other people, I just haven't had enough opportunity to test it and come to any conclusions about my ability. I'm definitely overthinking this, as I usually do, because I probably don't fully understand the possible implications of answering "agree" or "don't agree" and I hate not understanding.