Overly focused is a stretch. You can manage relationships with up to 6 party members, of which you may have up to 1 intimate scene in each of the 3 acts per party member. This is theoretical, and is generally not achievable like that in one playthrough unless you're following a guide. Also, those intimate scenes do not always include sex, they are often just deep conversations.

More importantly, the 3-4 5 minute scenes are spread out over a 60-100 hour campaign lol

overly focused on sex and relationships in general

I thought you liked believable stories

My first playthrough was 130 hours and my character had sex once, and I only did that because the situation was so outrageous I wanted to see what happened.

It’s not really so much focused on sex and relationships, but an earlier version of the game had the romance triggers set too low, so it got a reputation for everyone in the game being excessively horny, plus the internet is gonna internet.

I personally had fun with the triggers for other characters saying they wanted in your pants being originally set too low, because I was playing a horribly socially awkward ranger who lived in the woods far away from people, and she had no idea what to do with what seemed like everyone and their cousin suddenly hitting on her. Poor thing constantly had a voice in her head screaming, “THIS IS WHY I LIVE IN THE WOODS!”

I've played this game for 105 hours on my first playthrough and the relationship and sex parts of it probably didn't take over 30 minutes. Absolutely nothing was forced on me, nothing took me off my path to focus on those, if it happened, it happened in a natural way.

You should not take internet's overreaction of such things as the sole source of truth.

I totally agree with your second sentence, that it makes the game more believable and (at least for me), and BG3 is such an amazing game thanks to their character cast.

However, why would it be dumb to make such a mod? Sure, it's not something I'd use, but it's actually a pretty cool technological feat, given the voices and everything, and it allows you to finetune the game to more fit your preference or fantasy. RPGs are supposed to be about living through your fantasies, and having fun. It's a single player game, why shouldn't people tailor it to their own specific needs and wants?

Of course, if they are being a dick about it, and spewing their bullshit propaganda in the mod description, the I'm all for just banning it.

Probably a damn good game, but everything people talk about on the internet is sex 24/7. Makes BG3 sound like a hentai game.

I have zero issues with any of the orientations of the people in the game but I'm getting bored of all the high school relationship stuff in a game it wish was more focused on the adventure. Like I spend more time in dialogs than I do in combat. I'm not saying the game lacks exploring or combat, I'm saying the balance just isn't quite right for me.

So in my opinion the game spends too much time on relationships of any flavor. But that's just me, many many others love this game exactly how it is, and that's pretty great.

You're getting downvoted from one camp who disagrees that more diversity in a game makes it more "believable" and downvoted from another camp that will also downvoted me for disliking or criticizing the game at all. It's very popular, with good reason, and has generated a very strong fanbase. Suggesting anything is "overly focused" is not gonna fly.