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[-] technologicalcaveman@kbin.social 128 points 11 months ago

I am 24, autistic, straight edge, and a data analyst. I'm the youngest person in my company, the closest person to me in age is 45. I haven't used a regular social media site since I was 14. My only interaction with modern discourse is my girlfriend's 18 year old sister. When she talks she might as well be speaking another language. My hobbies are unix, classic literature, VHS collecting, and synthesizers. My girlfriend calls me her 80 year old boyfriend.

[-] Hiro8811@lemmy.world 85 points 11 months ago
[-] EatYouWell@lemmy.world 32 points 11 months ago

The anonymous factor differentiates things.

[-] Hiro8811@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago

Can't any social media be anonymous?

[-] lud@lemm.ee 25 points 11 months ago

Sure but it's not intended to be.

Also a big part of it is imo that you never interact with the same people on sites like reddit or Lemmy, you don't follow anyone or anything.

[-] 257m@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

I often see the same people over and over again on lemmy since its a small community. I even saw the same nicks on reddit often (like shittymorph). But yes it isn't intended to be ego centric like other sites.

[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 months ago

So Twitter isn't a social media?

[-] ours@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

The "social" aspect is up to debate.

[-] Klear@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

Good old asocial network.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Usernames though. Anonymous would be something like 4chan

[-] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 15 points 11 months ago

I guess they mean Facebook, Xitter, etc. You know, the big ones.

[-] doctordevice@lemm.ee 14 points 11 months ago

I think anonymous social media, while still social media, occupies a very different category from non-anonymous (identified?) social media. And the default interpretation of "social media" is the latter.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

That'd make Twitter not social media for people not using their actual names.

[-] westyvw@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Alot of people do use their names on Twitter, and they really encourage you to follow, buy, and sell.

I don't recall people calling forums social media, and Lemme (and Reddit) are more like forums, with you following the subject. Not each other. Very much like BBS back in the day except with links.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

The tougher requirement of people using their name would leave very few social medias. Basically just LinkedIn and Facebook, with Twitter and others that have usernames but also named people being in the grey area.

[-] westyvw@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Even though there are anonymous people on twitter, it still asks you to follow, and the posts are generally self promotion, not discussion of topics. That is the big difference.

Lemmy is media, without the social part. Unless you really want to. I have not even looked at the users names I respond to, because that does not matter. On twitter, it actually does, real name or not.

[-] Hiro8811@lemmy.world -3 points 11 months ago

Any media can be anonymous.

[-] Voyajer@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago
[-] zik@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

It's also "social news", which is a kind of social media.

[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 10 points 11 months ago

Only if you don't participate in the comments sections or even just look at them.

[-] thrawn@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

More or less, but they specified “regular social media” which Lemmy is not

[-] YoorWeb@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago
[-] technologicalcaveman@kbin.social 7 points 11 months ago

I'm on kbin. But I'd consider this and other reddit inspired websites to be closer to a forum than a social media. Sure, you can use it like a regular social media site, but it's more tilted towards a forum method.

[-] bane_killgrind@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 months ago

Not a regular one

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