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this post was submitted on 23 Dec 2023
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I hang out with my cats.
People have weird impressions of animal companions, especially cats, because they treat them poorly. You should raise animals like children: learn from a good cat parent directly and read up on evidenced-based books. It's easy to see parallels with poor parenting: intergenerational poor parenting, nuclear families where the grandparents aren't actively engaged in teaching how to parent, absent parents due to capitalisms unending grind.
It takes patience, positive reenforcement, consistency, and commitment. But cats can be best friends.