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this post was submitted on 17 Jun 2023
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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.
Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.
Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.
At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.
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Really the best advice is just be yourself! I think most things that make people seem "a bit bi" are just people wearing whatever / acting however they like.
I feel like I see a lot of straight people feel like their are "rules" that if they break them the opposite sex won't find them attractive, or folks might think they're "weird" or "gay". And plenty of of gay people feel similar pressure to "fit in" to the constraints of whatever subculture they're part of.
When people stop worrying about being one thing, and just do whatever mix of stuff naturally appeals, they normally end up giving off 'bi vibes' (at least to me). Obviously, this is a lot of big generalisations!
, body language, etc that shows that they're not desperately trying to be stwreotyoiclally straight or gay.