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‘Andrew Tate is a symptom, not the problem’: why young men are turning against feminism
(www.theguardian.com)
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In all honesty, 3rd wave feminism chased away a lot of male allies. Like a whole lot.
But I don't think that's what led to Andrew Tate, that is no failure of feminism.
Andrew Tate is the product of hyper capitalistic individualism being held up in all forms and media and real life as 'the ideal lifestyle', a rich, aggressive asshole that has enough clout that most people can't back them down.
The Tates, Trumps, Elons of the world are having their day because our current generation conflates wealth with competence.
And it's going to ruin our world.
That said, feminism as it stands now is far more welcoming and inclusive to men than it has been in 25 years and I applaud the change.
I'll probably be downvoted to hell.
TLDR: If your legs are broken and you treat one and ignore the other you'll fall eventually. That's women's and men's rights. True equality is unachievable without both being fully recovered.
Full achieving women's rights while putting minimum input into issues men face. Rarely ends well for either. High suicide rates, homelessness, alcoholism, etc. Those who try to find hope turn to their jobs, religions, and terrible role models.
Both sides have them but most people ignore the truth. People like Andrew Tate become influential because the underlying problem is ignored. More bad role models (BRM) will pop up until you treat the cause instead of the symptoms.
It doesn't help that theres plenty information including studies that highlight the problem and proves the points made by BRM.
This is reinforced by several instances where someone wants to bring awareness to the Men issues being harassed, facing death threats and etc. This also happened when the first and only DV shelter for was opened. The staff and everyone involved faced a huge backlash that they ended up closing it.
I know it isn't much, but you should look up Hasanabi interviewing Tate. He gets clapped and his reactions pierce through that tough guy, strict father model persona of his, and it's glorious. I was in Romania recently. I should've paid him a visit to taunt him.
The less I consider this man the better my general outlook on humanity is, and it's pretty fuckdamn low these decades so let's not add more erosion to that tiny bitter flake remaining.
I actually things those people are the last straw of that system. They are the final product of this system and everyone hates it, sooner or later. Your average traditionalist will not recognize himself in Tates lack of manners nor will the liberal capitalist due to his authoritarian tendencies. He is the final product of a terminally ill system and the full displays of all of its flaws. I'm quite hopeful since his downfall because it likely means people will move on from that system
Oh no my friend, it's going to get much, much worse. There is no 'he is brutal enough as leader', there is only 'who can be more brutal and have the power to get away with it.
I wish I could believe in your optimistic view. In my experience the first part is right, but instead of everyone hating it, they will double down because NOW it's part of their identity and you don't threaten someone's identity. People will move mountains to keep their worldview intact.