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Obviously I can understand why mysoginists are hated upon, As their belief is all women are trash or men are superior etc. But why are incels also generally hated upon? They are lacking in a way that makes them unable to gey in a relationship, but that shouldn't necessarily mean they are mysoginists, right?

What am I missing here? I haven't ever had a relationship with a woman, but I don't hate all women either. I just consider myself unlucky. Does that make me an incel?

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[-] 20inmyhead@lemmy.ml 28 points 9 months ago

I’ve never encountered an incel that wasn’t misogynistic. Generally they blame women for their lack of sex.

[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

I blame my looks and bank account for lack of sex.

[-] Archaicio@sh.itjust.works 17 points 9 months ago

Have you tried lowering your standards?

[-] Cosmicomical@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

I don't want to be condescending or patronising, however: looks are less important than personal hygene, personal care and charisma, three things that can be acquired quite easily as there is a lot of literarure on all of them. Money certainly enables you to get better clothes and widen your horizons, but alone it will not do much for you. The most important thing though is certainly hygene. And remember that when you go out with someone the first time, usually what they are trying to understand is if you are completely deranged or viable human material. Try to fit the second category and you'll do great. Poor people and ugly people also get laid, so that's not an excuse.

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