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When discussing paedophilia, the primary focus should be on how to protect children.
I've always felt our discourse on paedophiles to be less about that, and more about punishing people who haven't done anything wrong.
I've always considered the adage; is it better to be born good, or to overcome your evil nature?
At the risk of comparing children to meat, I think being an ethical paedophile is similar to being vegan. You're controlling your selfish desires so you don't cause unnecessary suffering to another.
I don't have any questions for you OP. But good on you for being a good guy. I'm sorry your brain got wired wrong.
Sure thing - protecting children is the highest priority.
And currently, protecting children and helping us combat stigma go hand in hand. At the very least, in a part where we could open up about our issues without fear and get professional help if needed.
I, too, like the veganism analogy. As per "brain wired wrong" - previously I would refer to my situation just the same way, but when you live with it long enough, it becomes normal, and the curiosity sparks not on "why am I like this", but rather "why others are different". Regular people find children cute, beautiful, lovely. But then, when it comes to actually feeling something for them, people just don't. This always made me feel weird. But yes, your case is the norm, and ours is exception - probably for the better :)
What I'm saying wasn't to imply that there is a difference between protecting children and any other measure, but more about the primary focus for many people tends to be "all paedophiles get the noose".
A lot of things which may prevent real world harm are often not even considered because of the "ick factor". The way society views this issue is detrimental to child safety.
For what it's worth, my brain is wired wrong, I have ADHD. It's not to imply people with bad wiring deserve any less compassion. But people with bad wiring are suffering in their own ways, and they deserve professional help.
I get your points, thank you for additional clarification!