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this post was submitted on 05 Mar 2024
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Sorry if it wasn't clear enough, I'm looking for general terms to use for all people, regardless of their gender, not just trans people.
There have been some good examples for groups, but nothing that fits well for talking to one person directly.
My personal recommendation is to drop the extra title entirely. For everybody.
E.g. instead of saying "great work man" just say "great work." It could help you prevent flubs later.
I do wish I knew some non-binary singular terms I could use, but none come to my mind
Yes, this seems to be the simplest answer, even if it will take a while to get used to.
I think I'm going to piggyback off inspiration of your question and ask my own, something like: "Enbies, how do you prefer partners or others refer to/about you?"
BTW, sorry for misunderstanding the goal of your post, but I appreciate your (and others') replies here.