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That's not why they were kicked out. The coach lied, to get them playing in the boys league, since they were so good.
So of course they got kicked out. What you expect the league to do?
that is some selective bullshit
Seriously. What this tells me is that 70+ people either didn't read the article or they just really have a thing about mixed gender sports. You quoted only the pathetic backpedalling lies he said to try to further justify his actions. BUT FIRST AND FOREMOST he said this (the man you are quoting, Sunderland, is the president)
IT IS WHY THEY WERE KICKED OUT.
You're telling me it took multiple games AND teams for them to become "apparent that it was a girls team " ??? And become a problem. But only until they got far enough because maybe they wouldn't and then SWOB could avoid PR problem all together.
this is a reminder to read the fucking article people
You might come up with a similar conclusion as me, or completely opposite. But OP is patently false and deceptive with their quote and definitive ruling on it, claiming the headline is deceptive! Fuck that.
You might have quoted the wrong part. This is what you're looking for:
Also it looks like the guts of the article is the media statement here:
https://www.swohiosports.com/
It's a daft thing to say, and just pours fuel on the conflagration, but it does reveal some insights into the character of the guy.
"Either you agree with me or you hate women" is a pretty silly opening argument...
Damn even stretch armstrong couldn't reach that far
Why not, Israel seems to be doing fine with this kinda opening
So if I understand it correctly, it's a boys only competition, not an open competition. And since these girls were so good, they wanted to be able to compete against the top teams, so they pulled of a superb ruse to be able to do just that, in the process upsetting some men who don't want to compete against girls for reasons, especially if they end up losing. That's going to make a good sport movie one day.
Many (most?) sports have a top "open" competition that anyone can enter and then several restricted competitions (age, sex, handicaps, ...), but even if you qualify for one of the restricted competitions, if you're good enough, you can still play in the open competition. Except in bible belt country apparently, no girls allowed in the top competition.
It sounds like it's not a boys only competition. It's not entirely clear whether this quote is just referring to in general or this specific league, but based on the context the latter appears to be the intended reading.
These are 6th graders. There's no "top" competition for 6th graders at all, which is why this is a region specific league, and most of the sports are divided into boys and girls divisions at those ages.
Why is it divided by sex?
I can only speak about my nation's club football (the world kind, not the us one): the normal competition is open to anyone, with smaller competitions for other groups. Those smaller competitions have discriminatory rules for entry, but players that meet those criteria, can still chose to play in the normal competition if they want to. The "normal" competition has many more brackets than the smaller competitions because there's just way more players, which also means that if you want to play vs the best, that's where they are. It's the same principle for all ages.
I can imagine that at one point the football competition in my country had similar "no girls allowed" rules, but when I grew up in the nineties, the football competition that I played in was already mixed.
I don't know. I didn't go to school near Ohio, but my state had some sports divided by sex and some not at that age. In my area, it seemed to be largely that the popular sports were divided, and the less popular sports were not.
The way to change it is either to ask for it to be changed by the existing organizerd, or form a new league if they won't, and enough parents want that.
In the statement on their website, Sunderman literally quotes himself telling McGraw that the girls couldn’t play because if they beat a boys team in the playoffs then the boys might get frustrated and physically retaliate, causing a liability issue.
He didn’t say they couldn’t play because they registered as a boys team. That was more of a supporting anecdote presented because of social media blowback.
Even if you are technically right, you are morally wrong. They should be allowed to register in that league, and if they weren't then the coach lying about their gender was the correct and moral thing to do.
Crazy to watch people twist themselves in knots bending over backwards to try and excuse sexism.
But I don't even think you are technically right. All those quotes stink like excuses and BS.
That's a whole different kind of sucky.
I'm completely bumfuzzled about this.
The way I see it, when you're a sports executive, you have two options in this situation: 1) exclude the girls' team because "dem's the rules" or 2) let them play because seeking out the boys' competition will help them develop into a stronger team.
Personally, I think 1) is a weak choice, especially when arguments like "someone could get hurt" are both ripe with misogynistic sentiment and refuted by the games played without incident.
This is a direct quote from the Southwestern Ohio Basketball website.
They allowed the girls to play until the end of the season in the boy's category, so your take on it is incorrect.
So the article is wrong, but this still doesn't make it OK. The article should have just been accurate. That would have been nice.
Did you read the article? I think you should. I'm not being snarky, promise.
The headline is misleading. What I pulled was from the article.
What was in the article is that the girls team was kicked out of the league when the only game left was the championship game. You'd think if it was just the "no girls allowed" issue that would have been dealt with much earlier...
Oh no, how dare you bring FACTS to a lemmy post?!
LoL. Lemmy is definitely feels over reals so far. And my feeling appreciates that.
Didn't you read the title of the blog post? Of course they're evil!
The headline was accurate. Read the article.
Oh, great idea, but I was just guessing, I don't read articles, only what other people think, and then I just go with that.
The headline is correct, but it doesn't tell the whole story was my point you absolute doofus.
Did you read the article (and linked statements) or not? The league stated the reason the girls couldn’t play and that reason that a boy might not be able to handle avoiding hitting a girl if they lose. None of this would be an issue if the girls weren’t winning. I don’t buy for a second that nobody noticed all season that they were losing to girls.
You mean the blog post on "comicsands.com"?
And this erudite take by "Prez, a social media user on X (Formerly Twitter)", who "didn't buy it"?
Yes, I did! Multiple times, unfortunately!
It's ridiculous to be so ready to fall for populist propaganda when you just happen to be on the self-congratulatory team, but the mode of thinking is the exact same as employed by MAGA freaks.
Your lack of critical thinking makes you just as bad as them.
I already told you that I clicked through to other posts as well as the statement from the league. What else is there to parse. If you don’t like the blog that is linked, feel free to post a different one. People like you are interesting to me, so quick to insult people online, arrogantly making judgements. I bet you’d be really nice to me in person. https://www.swohiosports.com/
I happen to think that uncritically spreading clickbait bullshit is bad on its own.
"Sunderman said he coached against a team of boys from Next Level in the first game, and he said the team's gender was listed as male in it registration, but he said the rest of the games were played by girls.
"We entered them into the league assuming they were a boys' team as conveniently no roster was ever provided," Sunderman said in his statement."
Yeah, gee the outrage. Guy knowingly put the team in there knowing full well that he was breaking the rules, and switched out his team for a boy's team in the first game because that's not suspicious at all! What did you expect the league would do? There are liabilities, like voiding your insurance for 100 000 kids and forfeit all the results for the season.
But never mind that, because this is pure misogyny and the title alone proves it, fuck the facts.
And for (sigh...) “You are so mean and insecure and a man and boo my fucking who”? This is you wanting to divert the conversation to a topic where you feel more secure, like how victimized and “above it all” you are, so that you won't have to question yourself or your beliefs or take any responsibility for your actions. And, well, congratulations.
I find this to be a common problem on Lemmy.