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there's a reason it's "hard out there" you know (OC)
(lemmy.dbzer0.com)
This comment section: "Actually I'm pretty sure the bike fell over for reasons unrelated to the stick"
I made it two paragraphs in, you need to talk to someone about your emotions.
You may think that you're not showing this negativity and sadness on the surface, but I can guarantee your potential partners are picking up on it immediately.
You can't build a successful relationship without starting from a good place. You're starting from a bad place with negative expectations each time.
Until you address the only constant (your emotions and negative self-image) in this cycle of rejection as you call it, you'll never succeed in a relationship.
Thank you for your input ^^
I'm usually a lot more positive but sometimes things happen (usually stress related) that emotionally stir up those kinds of emotions in me. I have consulted professional help and I am thinking about taking the time to do so again.
As mentioned in my second last paragraph I am feeling extremely fine usually, because apart from that I cannot really complain.
I usually try not to think about it and see the positives like not having to deal with a break up during exam time or something. But this is also why I sometimes feel even more conflicted because I know that it's just not the right time for lovesickness.