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I saved it from a cropped image of an old zine and forgot to make note of where I got it 😭 Reverse image search isn’t helping me

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[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 38 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

When I was around 8, my dad made the comment that it would have been easier for a trans lesbian to find partners if she’d never transitioned. I’m not an egg at 32 for exactly that reason or anything….

Sorry, !196 is for trauma dumping, right?

[–] tb_@lemmy.world 37 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hard disagree with your dad there, it would be extraordinarily difficult for a cis man to get in a lesbian relationship.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m gay and trans too, I feel you on having family members make shitty comments and being afraid of being unsupported and unloved. It sucks and hurts to hear shit like that. 💔

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

❤️ you’re doing a lovely job as a guide, if that helps. I’m very lucky to be married to a bisexual man who’s happy whether I transition or not and my family would probably be largely accepting. My dad would definitely make shitty “jokes” for a while, but he’d also be really excited to have a son, I think. Which is its own kind of shitty, but he’s never made it a big deal.

[–] FfaerieOxide@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

When I was around 8, my dad made the comment that it would have been easier for a trans lesbian to find partners if they’d never transitioned.

Profferers of that view reveal they see women as fungible, else they'd comprehend lesbians want to date lesbians.