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this post was submitted on 13 Apr 2024
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Haven't had the desire nor intent to have children, myself, but the sentiment is appreciated nonetheless. My experiences taught me that family is what you make of it, and I've a family of my own sort full of the kindest, most helping and understanding people I know. While I won't experience a healthy "parent/child" dynamic myself, I've made peace with that. I've got a life of my own to make, and I've found the best people to spend it with.
Take pride in what you're doing, mate. Even with the mistakes you're hinting at, you're going at it with the right mindset, the ideal attitude, and your kids will certainly appreciate what you're doing for them. Breaking the cycle of abuse/familial trauma is not an easy task, nor is it something many people even realize is something they can or should do, so to see a parent being determined to break that cycle always warms my heart.
This is the happiest a comment has made me all day. I am so glad you found the family you weren’t born into. I’m a middle aged dad of a 7 year old, and I can’t imagine how broken inside somebody has to be to traumatize their own child like that. In many cases I think it is a cycle of abuse, so good on you for breaking the cycle whether you ever have/adopt kids or not.