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[-] LotrOrc@lemmy.world -5 points 6 months ago

Generally teenage relationships are unstable because kids aren't mature at that age

But generally by 16 to 17 most kids know cheating isn't a good thing

[-] silence7@slrpnk.net 8 points 6 months ago

About 1/3 of boys that age haven't figured that out yet. That's an awful lot of potential victims for this kind of extortion.

[-] LotrOrc@lemmy.world -2 points 6 months ago

What's your source for that? I'm actually asking, not trying to be dismissive.

[-] silence7@slrpnk.net 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

My recollection of a study about 20 years back where they asked college women to ask out guys at random. About a third of the guys who said yes were in a relationship.

[-] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago

oh thats interesting and sad. do you know which study that was?

also not trying to be dismissive, but I wonder how they asked the men out. like was it clear that it was a date or could it be mistaken for someone who was looking for someone to drink a beer together?

[-] silence7@slrpnk.net 2 points 6 months ago

I doubt I'll find it;; it was in the paper-journals era. If I recall correctly, the form of question ranged from "it's a date" to "let's sleep together"

A LOT of guys at that age just want to get laid more, and a big chunk simply don't care about existing relationships if they think they can get away with it. This matches my personal experience.

[-] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

man thats proper sad then

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