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How do y’all deal with dating?
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this post was submitted on 30 Aug 2023
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I (AuDHD diagnosed last year) am very glad that I met my wife (NT as far as we know) in the 90s. I think that was a more forgiving time. Since i'm completely clueless in regards to flirting, non verbal signals and reading between the lines, my (now) wife had to basically ask me to kiss her for me to realize that she might be interested in me. So I can't really give advice other than: be friendly and wait for the rigth person to choose you. Regarding personality types I can say that I'm often indecisive and tend to overthink things while my wife is very practical and a bit dominant. It works rather well for us.