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US man has brain damage, mother says, after allegedly being pushed into lake
(www.theguardian.com)
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Not every bad decision makes a person a psychopath. You're diluting the meaning of that word.
Shoving a friend into a pool or a lake is pretty common young person behavior. Odds are she feels extremely guilty now. That doesn't mean she shouldn't face consequences for what she did, but there is no indication that she is a psychopath.
Teach your children to swim.
I agree that everyone should know how to swim. Unfortunately, it's pretty common for those in poverty to never learn because they have fewer opportunities.
Odds or this person wasn't from a background of poverty, considering that he was studying to be a doctor, but it is a common problem in the US.
Do you not have swimming lessons in school? I hated them, the teacher, the chlorine. I don't like swimming, but if I needed to, I can. I mean, water makes up how much of the earth's surface, seems strange to ignore.
Most public schools do not have pools.
It's funny cos I think of (areas like ca) that have pools galore in the backyards so it would lead to you to expect schools to have them. Scratch that, it's not funny.
Florida has tons of pools too, and I actually got swimming lessons in elementary school, we had mini field trips for a week walking to a community pool and teaching everyone to, at a minimum, float on their back and tread water.
This should be mandatory before second grade. Every major city has public pools. How are we not requiring this to be part of every public school’s curriculum? It’s 2024. You know, those finger painting projects were fun, but they aren’t going to save as many lives as swim lessons.
Except for the part where the guy can't swim, and she shoved him in the water regardless. And didn't try to rescue him and took 20 minutes to call for help, and the family believes it was malice. These were not children playing, he was 26 years old.
This is all in the article, and I find it astonishing that people feel a need to defend her, when she basically killed that man, by behaving irresponsibly on 3 counts. there is basically nothing of the original person left.
You don’t know she knew he couldn’t swim, you don’t know what happened. Maybe they were both messing around pretending to shove and then it went too far. ~~Young~~ people do stupid things all the time, sometimes intentionally, and sometimes not.
Once again, shoving a friend into water does not make you a psychopath even if you know they can't swim. It makes you an idiot, for sure. But that's not psychopathy.
I was defending that
Sorry, I misread. Thank you for supporting proper use of that word. Everyone likes to just jump to 'psychopath' these days.
But we do know, He was 26 years old, so this was not children playing. She pushed him in the water, but didn't rescue him, and we also know she took a very long time to call for help. So maybe base this on what we know instead of what we don't know and speculation on what happened.
So based on that make your own judgement on what kind of person she is.