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[-] Catfish@aussie.zone 1 points 5 months ago

Oh hon. That was totally not ok. I canā€™t see any way it wasnā€™t intentionally manipulative. Why you took the bait is a question, but why she posed the trap is bigger.

[-] TinyBreak@aussie.zone 2 points 5 months ago

You reckon? Iā€™m not sure if that is the case or if Iā€™m just over thinking it.

[-] Catfish@aussie.zone 2 points 5 months ago

Um yeah. Feels totally manipulative to me. For massively oversharing context: Iā€™ll set traps but after long discussions about boundaries first. Itā€™s a BDSM thing. Consent REALLY matters if youā€™re fucking with somebodies brain patterns.

[-] TinyBreak@aussie.zone 1 points 5 months ago

I mean, if weā€™re over sharing Iā€™ll be more specific with the concern:

nsfw

itā€™s not like she leg locked and said ā€œcum in meā€. It was more justā€¦ well thereā€™s no polite way to say it: all the stuff she knows I love, which would yeah also make things finish faster than not.

Question is she doing that cause itā€™s been a while and weā€™re reconnecting? Or is she doing cause sheā€™s trying to make it harder to resist finishing inside?

Impossible to say, and certainly not a question I can find a good way to ask.

Like I said in todayā€™s DT: the plan I came up with was the best I could figure, and she had no objection to a condom since so I assume sheā€™s NOT trying to get pregnant.

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