this post was submitted on 07 Jun 2024
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Hello new Lemmy friends!
Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.
The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.
Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.
We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!
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Hah. Is that how she looked at ya on that rock, Shame?
Hey so I’m fairly new to this but very on board. I only found out about the sub the day it was banned but had mutual connections back when I lived in Guelph and always thought she was so phoney. Never met her but her brand of body pos seemed like a total gimmick, in no way authentic, so I’m glad to see truth come to light and hope Janette’s project will help usher in the end of the influencer age bc its so toxic on all levels.
Aaanyway. I’m missing some inside jokes…What is the deal with the rock?!
I think she said that she and Shame had to sneak off to have sex on a rock when they were first dating although they both had their own homes. It was way tmi and unnecessary lol.
You forgot the part where Shane had the coordinates of that rock inscribed on the inside of her engagement ring. And people say romance is dead! 😏
LOL I forgot about that 🤢
Whoa definitely tmi lol. I feel like the oversharing is such a huge part of the strategy for these women. The only other place I’ve seen it so consistently is in early dating where a date will to try to create the illusion of closeness by volunteering too-intimate details when you’ve only just met. It’s a classic manipulation tactic
I hadn’t thought of it that way but you’re so right. Everything she does is so manipulative.
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